Are you a doctor or a porn star? “When I first started creating non-judgmental sex education content online, I was asked this question almost every day. An average woman in India who intentionally talks about sex seems to be talking about sex. as inappropriate or even offensive to most people.
Sex is still taboo in India. Victorian social norms and laws, introduced during the British colonial period, remained at the heart of social relations. Homosexuality will be legalized in 2018. Rape is still legal in 2022. Premarital sex is still bad. Especially for women, family is undesirable. According to the latest National Family Health Survey (NFHS-5), less than 10% of Indians use condoms, shifting the burden of family planning to women.
It’s hard to deny that what’s out there is restrictive and narrow, especially when it comes to sex with single women, same-sex sex, paid sex, sex relationships, and so on. sex with multiple partners and even masturbation, making it seem ugly, dirty, alien, and punishable. . We can’t talk about sex, let alone matters of faith, because, “log kya kahenge?”
From “what do people say?” mean. also included concerns about the image and social status of the Indian community. The fear of punishment defines the private lives of millions.
Media depictions of sex are often medical and dangerous, such as news stories that focus on illness and violence, extreme and explicit – rumors about relationships celebrity connections, and (now technically banned) Internet pornography. Sex rarely comes up as a casual topic and should be honest.
At school, if you’re lucky, you can take a half-hour class on the biology of the reproductive system. The teacher can show diagrams of the penis and testicles, uterus, and ovaries. Erection, penetration, and ejaculation can be recorded. You will not be able to view the clitoris map. For women, the message is clear: sex is for having children, not for orgasm. Sex transcends binary gender identity and sexual relationships remain unrecognized.
As young Indian women struggle to accept their gender, sexual health, and relationships, there is a lack of culturally appropriate and accessible information about sexuality.
This prompted me to start a digital sex education platform 5 years ago. Today, my movies reach millions of young Indians every day. However, short video and audio formats have limitations. I wrote The Book of Sex: An Exciting Journey to Self-Discovery because I wanted to create a more comprehensive, culturally relevant, fun-oriented source of sex education for young Indians who feel friendly and honest, instead of teaching and textbook style.
At best, a combination of stigma and social stigma combined with a lack of accurate information has forced the younger generation to understand everything from safe sex to orgasm. Worst of all, brides bleed to death on their wedding night, and gay teenagers are put on sneakers to be “cured” by propaganda.
Fortunately, today more and more people, especially women and those in the LGBTQ+ community, are creating education, art, social activism, film, comedy, and music to challenge. awareness of ideas about heterosexuality, sexism, and internal marriage. I am proud to be a part of this growing community. But despite major legal changes such as the criminalization of homosexuality and global movements like #MeToo, there has rarely been a fundamental shift in the Indian psyche. They are usually slow and gradual.
We hope that our society and government will recognize the importance of comprehensive and inclusive sex education to achieve gender equality, promote sexual and reproductive health and rights, end sexual and gender-based violence, and achieve a safer, better and happier world. something important.